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HOW TO AVOID ENVY

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Merriam-Webster defines envy as a “painful or resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by another joined with a desire to possess the same advantage.” When we are envious, we hate the fact that someone else is successful or happy. We want to selfishly remove their fortunate circumstances and place them upon our own backs. Why should we allow ourselves to feel pain when someone we know has a positive experience or obtains something nice? Learning to be truly happy for others when they accomplish something that brings them some measure of happiness or success requires humility, love and gratitude. Each of these principles will allow you to feel a greater measure of satisfaction with not only your successes but for the successes of other. Teaching these principles to your children and everyone around you will help them find greater satisfaction in any circumstance. Humility The more experiences you have with people from all over the world, the more you realize all people are the sa...

REASONS YOU SHOULD STOP BEING THE GENTLEMAN

Ones it was "treat her like lady and she'll stay" but not anymore, it's now more like "if you continue to be the gentleman, you are most likely to lose her to the hard guy next door". The following are some reasons gentlemen lose the lovers to the nonchalant ones. 1. They don't seem real . Ladies believe nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart they rather end up losing  2. Respect.   No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction.  3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are ...